Wolfhealer Writes

Grace: This is what I mean when I request grace: Good will - always assume the best in your partner unless proven beyond a doubt otherwise Responsible for actions - trust that they- will clean up - see above- even if person is fucking up - assume good will & that they will stand w u to kleen it up A -accept apology or explanation at face value and whole heartedly - if having trouble refer back to good will C - compassion - is this person giving you a hard time or HAVING a hard time E - empathy (vs judgement) what is the other person going through? IF I hear you utter the words "I call grace" I am going to do my utmost to rise to the above paradigm of thought. Ann's acid test for grace: would you want to watch your part played back on a big screen tv at a social or want a new dating partner to see your actions & how you function in these situations? Would you be ok with someone speaking/acting this way towards a child, puppy ...

Someone this week applied a word to my actions that used to be a highly charged word for me.... I reclaimed this one years ago and it doesn't have the power to shoot me into psycho mode anymore but it made me ponder what exactly comprises "bitch mode" here is my summize "Bitch Mode" B - Behindtime (late) I - impatient/ ikzhazperated T - terse / tense C - correcting/ critical H - hurried / harried And yep - that is what i was be~ing Question I ask myself ~ if I saw some one that mode would i label that/them or would i perhaps, hopefully, offer to help in some way?