Butter Butte Re-Boot....................

Wow....

As part of my clearing head space... after the crazy week... I thought I would "Catch Up" on my blog

I knew it had been a while... but I did not realize it had been just shy of 3 years....

I started writing on the trip Argo and I brought the Mothership home in August of 2010

I stopped writing when my writing sabbatical fell through.......

When I last wrote, Patrick still lived part time at the house, Tyler and I were still active partners, Naomi and Nathan were just moving in, Sarah and Josh and Carrie and Tom had yet to come and go....

It hasn't just been 3 years, it's a whole different world....

Something fell out for me when I stopped writing, when I realized I wasn't going to get that time off to switch gears and careers.....

There has been so much that "catching" up isn't even possible.... so I have read and looked back and felt joy at finding myself writing here again @ butter butte, where many of my posts were written, found deep deep thankfullness at the new people in my world, the current extended pack... and to find Nathan now in my life... and well on our way to two years as primary partners.... and, sadness ...the writing here started at a time when we were welcoming people into our home that have now become distant..... the pictures bring waves of missing people and wishing things had healed that haven't yet.... 

This was good good good for me for today....

a place to reset and re-begin, perhaps tomorrow....

and a reminder, looking at my outdated profile.... of when health WAS radiant, when I was still living into my goal of "healthier every year"....  something I have only NOT hit this last 18 months.... this is timely - time to get back to "healthier every day".... and make a new start @ radiant health and at writing.

Packwood always holds part of my soul and when things get as crazy as last week -if I can JUST get HERE... things all start to sort themselves out.... this time more to unravel than most weeks, months or years... but it is unraveling.... time to look at the threads one by one and start into a whole new chapter.... 


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